I am not a religious person but me and Matteo decided to get married in the church as well. At the time it seemed to be the best thing to do to our families and it was 100% worth it. Everybody that was important to us was there and it was amazing! We had a small party after the ceremony with a vegan menu (including the cake) and the food was just perfect.
But the most important thing today is to celebrate these 4 years. I don’t believe in marriage in the way some people do. I don’t think that the law or the church can change two people’s lives. I believe in love. Signing a piece of paper or talking in front of a priest didn’t change nothing in my life. I was married before and it didn’t work, so I could just give up. But I didn’t. I still believe that living with someone you love more than everything is the best way to spend your life. I believe that this relationship between two people is really amazing. It’s not always easy, but it’s totally worth it. I don’t believe that the law or the church make a marriage. Love, respect and friendship are the ingredients. And you must take care of this every single day. It will be enough, I promise. I don’t understand how people think that getting married could change the relationship. I do believe that moving together changes a lot of things. But if you learn how to live and be happy with the person you love, you are already married.
Today I’m celebrating this amazing day and all the memories that it bring to my mind.
Matteo, thanks for being my husband. The love of my life.